Home for Shirley Fagan has always been more than a place—it’s the feeling of belonging she’s carried from the rolling fields of De Forest, Wisconsin, to her welcoming apartment at Renaissance Senior Living of Hilldale. Born and raised in a small town just outside Madison, Shirley’s childhood was filled with the simple joys of farm life—her father ran a dairy for De Milk, her mother taught school, and Shirley and her younger sister Patricia ran wild among a band of barn cats.

The sisters, only five years apart, were best friends from the beginning. Shirley remembers their bond with a twinkle: “She was my only sister, and we were always close. My friends thought she was kind of a dope, but that’s what little sisters are for!” Whether they were laughing at home or spending endless summer days together, their friendship was the golden thread of Shirley’s upbringing.

Summers brought a special magic: the family’s trips to Door County, where Shirley and Patricia joined the Green Ram Theatre’s Summer Stock program. The outdoor stage became their playground, and each performance brought them closer—not just as sisters, but as lifelong friends. “I never have to be alone,” Shirley says, her voice warm with memory, “because I have a sister.” Even now, when life and distance keep them apart—Patricia lives in Milwaukee with her son—they share regular phone calls, warm reunions, and that same sense of belonging.

Shirley’s love of learning led her to U.W. Madison, where she earned both her bachelor’s and master’s degrees in social work. She found her calling at the U.W. Hospital, meeting people from every walk of life and helping them find comfort and hope. Shirley’s memories of the hospital are filled with gratitude: for the doctors she admired, the patients she supported, and the chance to make a difference—one person at a time.

Life gave Shirley the rare gift of loving deeply, twice. Her first marriage was a happy one, full of laughter, travel, and adventure—journeys together across Europe and Mexico. After the loss of her first husband, Shirley found joy again with Robert. Together, they adopted Patches, a loyal dog who’s still by her side and has become a beloved member of the Renaissance community.

Shirley moved into Renaissance Senior Living of Hilldale in June 2024, bringing her trademark wit, her love of books (especially mysteries and thrillers—she can finish a good one in a day!), and her contagious spirit. Whether she’s walking Patches, lighting up happy hour, or sharing stories in the lobby, Shirley’s warmth and humor make her a friend to everyone she meets.

Her story is one of resilience, connection, and the lifelong adventure of loving others—on the farm, on the stage, and right here at Renaissance. We are so grateful for Shirley, for her laughter and wisdom, and for the way she reminds us all what it means to belong.

Here’s to Shirley, to sisters, and to the simple beauty of a life well loved.